FAQS+

• All opinions in this (personal) blog are my own. 
• I have always been available for 1on1 resolutions via text, call, email. If someone makes rumors or slander despite me allowing space since an incident in 2010 to talk about issues, they are simply ruining my reputation. 
• I take my own photographs, but at times will use other photos for reference etc. 
• If photography is not my own, I will credit the source to the best of my ability. 

Miscellaneous 

Due to previous circumstances throughout my years in the Jfashion community known as GYARU, friendships (and collaborations) will no longer be sped through, or based off just a social media add (this will only count as mutuals, and will be deemed as an acquaintance depending on the level of effort and respect being put in.) 

• Friendships will need a completed application and mutual agreement to be considered, and will be mutually agreed upon and boundaries understood. 
• I will take my time with friendships to make sure we will be a good fit (consideration of my boundaries: personal and professional, ability to work through issues together than expecting mindreading etc, mutual values, no sneak disses disguised as "jokes", et al) than rushing things through and dismissing things I may find important. 
• If there are disagreements, they are to be rectified by the two people involved with a course of action to remedy the situation.
• Certain behaviours done that don't allow me to rectify the situation and is kept secret from me but put in and not limited to secret groups, other people I may or may not know, will be deemed as personal attacks and stirring up drama and the relationship will immediately end. 
• Collaborations with people will follow a similar route and need more information regarding the project. 
• People who do not take accountability for their actions and do them repeatedly or pretend they don't know what they are doing, there will be no friendship as it is not a good fit for me. 

I am sure there are people out there that enjoy being lied on, talked about in secret group chats, or having their information misconstrued or personal information told to third parties for mutual enjoyment of betrayal. I am sure there are people that love being pinned with negativity from people that act out of hatred or jealousy etc. despite taking advantage and for granted someone's loyality and helpful actions. I hope you find that person as I will most likely disappoint in those areas.