We deserve love - Anti Latinx/poc hate, fatphobia is not tolerated here

 For the most of us, we can all agree that we should all be able to be respected for who were are when it comes to our ethnicities, body types and for the languages that we speak beyond English and to have healthy high self esteem.

We can also agree that the people who we follow or get involved with or who seek us out should have our best interests at heart and not play on our fears and insecurities. When we clarify and connect, we use our own thinking skills and avoid things damaging our self esteem and losing people who support us.  Some people are desperate to divide us by any means necessary to conquer and be perceived as perfect, popular and powerful. They use our bickering,pettiness, our falling outs, and even negative emotions to be able to do accomplish this because they fear us having a strong support group and potentially “losing”. 

More info on how this is achieved is below  ⬇️ 

-take the spotlight off of them and any negative actions they caused before throwing someone under the bus for fun/survival

-to throw someone under the bus, undermine their work and effort and silence them

-the reason why they brought up negativity in the first place  

-to create an enemy of a secret rival and to seem perfect to someone else’s audience and connections

-to keep their hands “clean” while others do their dirty work

-to avoid accountability (there is too much chaos happening.)

-to erode trust in between friends, fans, etc

-to not “lose” to someone they seem a rival 

This is a common tactic for rivals in and out of the game of politics which includes competing businesses and even relationships. 

This can cause one person or group to seem hateful and the other party to partake in actions that can create a negative response that can lead to a reaction that fulfills a prophecy as well as dividing groups and friendships and ruining trust.go

 It amplifies ordinary actions or lying about them and makes people take things out of proportion and to make something out of nothing without you using your own mind and skills for doing your own due diligence (asking for facts, clarity, even having that other party there to tell the side of their own story). 

When we take the time to think for ourselves and ask questions about their intent (doing our due diligence to make informed choices), we can overcome the hurdles of broken relationships, self esteem  and find common points to clarify and conmect. This can be scary for some people who rely on these tactics for power and popularity and winning at all costs.